Beauty is a form of genius, more directly than genius, because it does not have confirmed. "The beautiful appearance vivid, simple and direct.

I've received a letter from a female graduate, she said her twenty-year-old, has never spoken to a love. She
describes herself as the "ugly duckling", belonging to resting will
drown in the crowd, walking in the street, there will not be any kind
of keep returning to see the end Zhuang Xiuli female student dorm looks
everybody and flowers Lord, she inevitably lost some.

Upper
undergraduate NaZhenZi, she has been like the class a boy, and the boy
tall and straight, looks outstanding, cheerful personality, with
outstanding results, also played in one hand and a very nice
basketball, wherever you are around a lot of beautiful butterfly But he never Zheng Yanqiao her "ugly duckling". The feelings of the road on a barren, she had always focussed on their studies. I
did not expect admitted to graduate school, but instead she got more
inferiority, because around even slightly excellent boys are basically
accompanied by beautiful women, she is still nobody cares. Family for this has been very anxious, she has long perplexed.

At the end of the letter, she asked me a question: is not a man just like beauty? At girls like her appearance on no "warrant" is destined to become a forgotten corner of love?

I Ins and Outs saw no less than three times, but I still did not return, I do not know how to answer her question.

I
am reminded of the words of 19th century British aestheticism writer
Oscar Wilde: "Beauty is a form of genius than genius more directly,
because it does not have to confirm." And beautiful appearance vivid,
simple and direct.

Foreign
psychologists have done a test: give you a stranger photos, rely on
this information only to ask you to guess the character of the
stranger, found that looks attractive and easier to think is
interesting sociable,
in terms of life and love are more likely to get success, we seem to be
a simple stereotype or set thinking, that the United States is good, we
believe that attractive people also have excellent quality, match their shape. Slogan or "beautiful survival once dominance?

Specific to men and women, the beautiful slightly different. Whether
love, mate and even interpersonal looks of the men of the opposite sex,
stature seems more important, although women also like a handsome young
male, but his talent, knowledge, status, economic situation more
critical.

The
formation of such differences on the one hand is caused by the
patriarchal society of men and women in economic inequality, women at a
disadvantage in the economy generally have to rely on in order to
survive economically rich man, on the other hand is also different
between men and women's sexual arousal lead 's. Men's
sexual arousal regions are concentrated in the lower body, excitable,
impulsive man first from the perception of the opposite sex as a visual
animal, eye, eye stimulus, somehow excited mood up. Since ancient times, in the intelligence field, said that men active, passive woman. The men of this initiative arouse woman beautiful appearance and graceful figure. Resistance factors conc.

A
few years ago, the hit TV series "struggle inside two heroines Charlene
Yang Xiaoyun for this problem have had some interesting dialogue, Yang
Xiaoyun:" I now know why men are polygamous, because of them less than
a woman thing -
uterus, so we do not have to accept any consequences. "Charlene nodded
in agreement:" So only when the chances of pregnancy for men and women
completely equal the Hospital door are filled with a frown, handsome,
the true meaning of men and women on the equality will be achieved! "is a joke, but it illustrates the point man's lust and Mahogany physiological reasons.

Unlike
the man of the woman's sexual arousal area is less concentrated, more
dispersed, and even to diffuse systemic and more rely on the language
and the imagination to mobilize, so women want to hear sweet talk, like
romantic love color weight. As
for the appearance, there was an idea the French feminist pioneer
Simone de Beauvoir, woman more a "look at body, means that women prefer
to dress accordingly others to enjoy, and others concerned about the
treatment of appearance, a woman born passive determines
that she is more concerned about their own, rather than the opposite
sex, so on this issue, the woman is more "narcissistic", men are more
"love her" Love her looks, her figure, her temperament, her body Hong,
not talk the inexperienced male college students, even if a lot of
battle-hardened, powerful successful man is also doomed.

Such
as the "Jinwucangjiao idiom from the Han Dynasty, Emperor Emperor
beauty queen appropriation also historians secretly recorded down
Qianlong Lord affair is directly moved to the TV screen . As
early as 2,000 years ago, the traditional Chinese culture, the number
one sage Confucius on to lament: "Wu Wei brought the matter to Germany
as sensualist, food color, sex, Mencius, a book, that something is
nothing to
King Xuan simply to sit together to discuss the life and philosophy ah
the one to call a spade a spade: "Guaren illness, Guaren lecherous",
Mencius, and did not put a moralist's face, on the contrary he answered
on love and Meng Master Q very
humorous: "The king of lust, so what's wrong, who do not like to see
beautiful women? but as long as you are elderly and more concerned
about the lives of the people living the event of marriage, so that
countries neither left male, not any woman left you is boundless!"

Thus, man, this visual animals beauty of immunity is very low. Throughout
the ages, men have been evolutionary, but the lecherous old trouble has
been powerless to change, do not want to change, to go out on the
street, even if it encounters a stranger beauty also distracted looked
around.

The man is the Mercedes Benz, the the greed visual decided they always match for youthful beauty temptation.]