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Why?The boys are keen to play pseudo-mother B8187a19-cbd3-4b34-81a6-e9ca4fffabe9Why?The boys are keen to play pseudo-mother Ultimate-vip-150x200 In
recent years, the "pseudo-mother" show on the stage to become a major
part of a variety of entertainment, "pseudo-mother phenomenon once
aroused the concern of the community, a lot of people and therefore
the" sissy "," masculine missing "on the desktop on. It
is worth noting that more and more parents to encounter angry son women
too strong, dress feminine, feminine character and other issues plagued
and tried to change the child's behavior and preferences. So, the children why such a problem? This phenomenon should or should not be forced to correct? "Pseudo-mother phenomenon" in the end be the individual development of what kind of impact?

Case One

Son out of the "pseudo-mother" misunderstanding

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15-year-old son, Wu Wen, handsome, white face, the sort of girl's delicate.

But this year I do not know since when, the son dress suddenly had changed. One morning, he put on to buy a new dress: red shirt, blue plaid seventh of trousers, matched with yellow shoes. I see that look just like a pretty girl dressed. Surprised,
but in order to maintain his son's self-esteem, just laugh wildly,
said: "yo, this is someone beautiful girl!" My son actually laugh, but
also correct, I said: "Mom, do not be that cynical, this popular know? "I'm puzzled, and dressed like fairly popular? But he said disapprovingly: 'pseudo Mother' heard it? Most tide of popular Fan. "

Son to school, I was lost in thought. If the son had become a "pseudo-mother" idea how to do this? After
all, society is not the stage, a big boy Xiangmaotangtang actually go
to school to do a "pseudo-mother", while his classmates and friends in
the future how to treat him? But the son is about to face in the exam, is clearly not a wise move if I rudely stopped.

Reminds
me of the television stations are organized singing talent competition,
one singer to "pseudo-mother" dress appearance, son watch the
performances of the singer actually was enchanted. Son likely is because by the impact of these singers, only to do a "pseudo-mother" idea, I think the way I want to.

Since then, every day something to eat dinner, I and Mr. coercion son out for a walk together. Once our family walks son was thinking about watching the talent show, kept urging us to go home. We rambling, time-consuming, and, as far as possible, to change the subject. I
asked him: "My son, you like to listen to the Who song?" To take
advantage of his thinking, I deliberately said: "My son, you will sing
Ho Kyung gardenia open"? "The son said:" do not like "I
said:" Mom liked to listen to this song, you can sing back to my
mother? "the son finished singing this song, and his father encouraged
him to say:" This is a man, there is courage! "

In
order to train his son's manhood, Mr. and son game speak at all times
of the hero of the story, such as Lin Chong snowy night on Liangshan,
Highlighting, Huoshaochibi, Columbus ...

Mr. slowly cultivating and nurturing the son gradually have a hero complex. This time, I seized the opportunity to guide him, the hero should have a strong body. The
son of an exciting, actually said: "Mom and Dad, tomorrow we run
together, right?" Mr. pleased to say: "Well, a deal." From then on,
every morning, we took his son running with.

Everyday
life, we also changed the old blanket approach, experience things
always have to listen to the views of his son, to develop his sense of
responsibility.

Not long ago, the school held the Games, the son of the best of the limelight, running, high jump to get good grades. Now, my son has to rid itself of the shadow of "pseudo-mother" into a physically strong man.

Case Two

Insist on doing their own most important designer blue said:

Blue (a pseudonym) is a designer. Recently, he told us about the experience of small to large, has always been known as the "mother".

"Probably
start from primary school, surrounded by a lot of people say my speech
sissy, do not know why the time school management was strict school we
had to wear uniforms, dress is no difference between me and everyone, I
would like to possible
preferences and personality reasons. example, boys generally like
football, basketball, I do not like me that time also did not
understand how boys like to play that? I kind of like art, like music, dance
class, I am still learning pole dancing child I also like to dress
themselves, and more like a girl friends, always feel that he is still
more common topic with the girls. personality aspect of it, but also
more sensitive and delicate more,
and sometimes even a little bit Xiaodujichang when everyone said the
old me 'is your mother' ah, I was not happy, but it is still not too
worried. then thinking is not the same as what I Why change yourself for others, I never thought needs to be changed. "

Blue said he was an only child, childhood living in her parents. His
mother belongs to a class of relatively strong, usually much more in
his possession some, his father is not weak, the tube was also a lot to
him, his parents came to big, relatively speaking families education it is quite balanced. He was in elementary school, we all came to love reading, and a large part of the time used to read. Plus although he compare love to dress up, but does not belong to the kind of obviously. Of students think he was a little mother this matter, his parents are not aware of, not to mention what measures. Blue said, they should feel that he belongs to a relatively good kind.

Now,
some people think that the child susceptible to show the impact of the
"pseudo-mother", to imitate the view, blue does not agree. Blue
said: "From my own point of view, I think this is a natural, I do not
have to be special. Now the show is a bit exaggerated, but most people
are not going to imitate in their daily lives people
like to imitate, maybe he was like that. Think about it, not
performances, which the boys would be willing to put himself imaging
girls! "

Blue
tells us that he has always insisted on their own ideas, of course, he
did not like the "pseudo-mother" as exaggerated, from small to large,
although some small controversy, however, is basically fairly
"uneventful". Later,
graduating from high school to the university entrance exam, he
naturally fill a professional art school design their own dream. After
the clothes even more refined, some of the more neutral, but because of
the study design professional's sake, did not say He was dressed in
feminine, weird. "Engaged
in the design, we believe that how fashion, how more the aesthetic on
how to do so accompanied by years 'sissy' nickname basically
disappeared without a trace, and now, almost no one to say I'm a sissy like
words. "Blue went on to say," Looking back, I really do not think I
have any special place I did not lose anything, and this is my life. "

Having
their own stories, blue is also recommended to us a song "born this
way", after listening carefully, we understand, he wanted to tell us:
no matter what time, adhere to do it yourself is the most important.

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"Pseudo-mother" and "pseudo-mother phenomenon"

"Pseudo-mother" more than normal male to female beauty, and some may be more than the average woman, even sound close to women. Therefore, a lot of times they can be as real people mistakenly think is a woman. The
term was first derived from cartoon characters, due to the definition
of "pseudo-mother" is still vague in the country, according to its
original definition usually is a compliment and show nature has already
not only limited, but lead to social concerns about the phenomenon of
"pseudo-mother" In the original intent of the "pseudo-mother".

Sun
Yat-sen University the Chinese Department Associate Professor Ke
Qianting teacher re-do the comb, the concept of "pseudo-mother":
"'pseudo Mother' meaning of the word constantly change. 'Pseudo-mother'
originally referred to the anime male or a female relative, after the
impact to reality the
dresser, some are for show, some for fun. affected people, also known
as the feminization of male 'pseudo Mother' generalized 'pseudo Niang
phenomenon'. previously said sissy, now another more convenient more
popular name. society 'pseudo Niang phenomenon' concerns and
criticisms, both for the men on the narrow concept dresser behavior,
but also for the broader category of male feminization. "

Household survey

Kids dress like "pseudo-mother" why? The parents should not be forced to correct the child's behavior? With this problem, we conducted case interviews, questionnaires and live Q, trying to do a further understanding of this.

We
distributed 100 social questionnaire, the basic balance of male to
female ratio, concentrated in the age of 15 years old -50 years old
young and middle-aged. From
the findings of the questionnaire, more than half of the people said
"pseudo-mother" tendency of people to contact in real life, but 42% of
the "pseudo-mother phenomenon", said does not care about, do not mind;
26% of the respect for the individual choose
that agree a reflection of gender diversity; but 16% of the people
found objectionable; Still others praised its interesting or despise
their grandstanding, respectively, accounting for 9% and 7% of the
total number. (See diagram)

One of the words

"Corrective" often thankless

Sun
Yat-sen University the Chinese Department Ke Qianting associate
professor think, no psychological distress without correcting

"Corrective" often thankless

The
Gender Studies Zhongshan University associate professor of the
Department of Chinese Keqian Ting pseudo Niang phenomenon arises, from
the analysis of both congenital and acquired. Temperament
is innate factors and nurture the result of both the male population,
some people seemed more feminine; female groups, some people seem more
masculine, this difference in temperament is innate. Parents
raising multiple children are fully understood, the same parents gave
birth to two boys, character, temperament may vary greatly. Acquired
the main reason is twofold: First, urbanization, children growing up in
very little to do physical activity; cultural influence, literature,
film, television, animation and other cultural products spread
diversity masculinity, many of whom are feminine, The warmth of the role, will also play an exemplary role.

Whether
you want to correct the problem, Ke Qianting associate professor of
primary and secondary students "pseudo-mother phenomenon" that the
child just some feminine traits, and occasionally girls like to play
the role, and did not cause psychological distress, and you do not have
to correct. Only this behavior has affected their daily lives and learning, was in need of psychological intervention. As for the others not pleasing to the eye, it is the things of others, do not have as standard. After all, the "correct" often thankless, can easily lead to the child's reverse psychology.

Associate
Professor Keqian Ting pointed out that this phenomenon is likely to
make some of the conservative, traditional gender stereotypes people
feel uncomfortable, but makes individuals more choices, so that
individuals can develop themselves according to the temperament of
their favorite, make social more diversified.

She
believes that the social criticism of the phenomenon of "pseudo-mother,
worries dresser behavior, both male narrowly feminization of men. She believes, do not have the men the feminization seen as a scourge. But
she also reminded the phenomenon of "pseudo-mother, but also wary of
commercial operation to promote in order to promote their products
because there is no lack of variety of dress, consumers should maintain
an appropriate distance and rational judgment.]

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