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人最怕被比较 男人易为自尊分手
http://health.msn.com.cn 2012-11-29 05:40:00 来源: 39健康网 [liuxiangqin]
男人最怕被比较 男人易为自尊分手
男人最怕被比较 男人易为自尊分手
　　男人最怕女人拿他和别人比
　　有30%的男网友被老婆、女友公然地嘲笑不如别的男人。超过四成的男网友都觉得自己的女人心底地瞧不起自己。只有29%的男性网友自信自己在他女人心
里是最优秀的。
　　男人会对女人在自己面前的数落感到自尊心受伤害，所以他们最怕拿他和别人比。除了男人自身的性格问题，比如他太自卑之外，他的挫败感很大一部分是受他
的女人的影响。比如女人在吵架时说出伤他自尊的话：“你真没出息，你看人家谁谁谁的老公!”可是这个被你看轻的老公不是你自己挑选的吗?那就对自己的选择
负责。
　　女人要避免说出伤害自己男人的话，还应该要从心底崇拜自己的男人。女人你应该想想，自己身边的那个男人曾经极力吸引你的地方，通过和别人对比之后变得
一无是处。改变的心态是你吗?
　　 比男人的事儿，你有没有做过?
　　 安于现状的男友三年没涨过工资
　　男友总是很安于现状，不懂得向上去追寻，学历、技术、专业都比我强很多，可是工资就没比我高过。
　　我想知道到底是为什么呢?他工作快三年了，可是工资一直都没长过，一直都在原地踏步，他不自己反省，我也不能说的太狠，担心自己说错话会打击他的自
信。可是如果他一直这样下去，我们结婚需要的房子要哪里来?我一直没有和他提结婚要买房的事情，他也是担心做房奴的压力太大所以认为租房子没什么不好。可
是毕竟最后我们需要的是属于自己的家。但是他为什么都没有打算呢?
　　女人是用来疼的，是需要得到男人更多的照顾，而不是像一个母亲一样管着他的生活。他的工资是没有我高的。我不知道他在张口向我要钱的时候心里是什么样
的滋味。现在感觉和他之间的距离越来越远!
　　男人如果想和女人在一起，他应该是有着一种强烈的责任心让自己的女人过的好，可是他却什么都没有做。挣钱，买房，攒钱，结婚。这些，他根本就没有想
过。
　　我有时候会怀疑他是不想和我结婚吗?这样安于现状的男人，实在不知道他的好在哪里。
　　我的男人不如别人老公体贴
　　我一个星期会有四个晚上上班，上班的地方离家里比较远，我还没考车牌，所以上下班都是坐公车，还要在市区内转一次车，而他是是上上班晚上上课，最近两
周他学校放假了，所以晚上不用上。
　　刚开始时，他很多时候都来接我，他不来我会很不开心，后来觉得他也累了，来回也不见了一个钟，于是便决定自己坐车就算了。只是周日的时候叫他来接我，
因为周日坐车难，而且星期一早上我要上课。其实这些都是小事，只是他每次来接我都觉得好像是一种任务，而不是义务，这让我觉得一来自己很不爱惜老公，二来
即使他真的来接了也不觉得心理上的开心。于是我不再让他来上班这里接我了，偶尔会让他来市区接我，那我就不用等另一班车，也不用下车后再走那一段路回去，
因为真的很冷，都零下几十度。
　　可是我觉得每次讲电话时他都好像有点怕我真的会要他来接我似的，也从来不会主动说要来，我想就算了，自己回去也不是什么大不了的时候，不想“为难”
他。慢慢他也不会在市区接我了。再慢慢地我星期天不上班了，于是他再也没来过接我了。
　　有人对我说过，我老公只值60分，因为他有车也不来接我，这么天寒地冻的。我也解释说，自己坐车也一样，其实心里酸酸的。看着别人都有老公去接，会感
到自己被忽略。他的一个好朋友也说，只要他有空，他也一定去接老婆下班。我在想，他老婆才是在走路不到几分钟的店吧?他也去。而我老公呢?我不想拿我老公
和人家比，因为如果我和人家比我也有很多不足，可是心里总是要这样……每每想到这，我都会很不开心。他每次去接我都只是因为顺路而已，去那边帮人修电脑，
又或者帮人送点货过去……不会再是为了接我而接我。更从来没多少是真的心甘情愿主动的去接我，我好伤心。我就觉得好压抑，觉得他不在乎我。有一次我回去吃
饭，电话中他也知道我回去，但我回到家后，菜也就这样冻了放着，也没帮我热，我觉得心都凉了。
　　我也在变了吧，即使不开心，我也不会表现得很明显，在他面前，我就当作什么都没有想过，什么事都没有，可是他哪知道，我一直在乎的是什么?
　　是他做得不够?还是我要求的太多?
　　 他工作七年了，月薪才3500!
　　我们从相识6年、恋爱1
年后步入结婚，在与他相识的6年中，我并不是非常了解他，只是上班中偶尔会有所接触，当时他给我的感觉为人很真诚、大方，不做作且很性格非常外向，唯一不
好的印象是说话声音很大，办公时碰到问题时，脾气偏暴躁!他从小生活在农村，家庭条件很艰苦，造就了他对现在的生活感觉很满意，其实我们的条件不能算是很
好，他月薪约3.5K/M，我的约仅2.5K/M，现在还没有房子。
　　他每天下班后，总是泡在网上玩游戏，在我看来就是一个非常不上进之人所为，其实在没有结婚前我就知道他是这么个人，但我以为结婚后，他会有所改变，没
想到更加变本加利!他毕业迄今已经有7年的工作经验，在现有公司之前，他在前家公司工作了3年多，一直没有地到晋升的机会，后来就跳到现在这家。4年过去
了，他依然只是小主管，照他的说法是，老板不给他机会。但我觉得他是个不会跟老板交流及沟通的员工，况且，很多机会就算摆在眼前，若自己不能够主动去争取
那也是徒劳!我的这些想法每每都会跟他沟通，但他的做为还是一成不变!
其实，他的专业工作能力很强，就是性格太过于好强，不肯跟老板去交流或沟通，我真的不知道该怎么办了!
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Men are most afraid of is easy to compare men broke up the self-esteem
http://health.msn.com.cn 2012-11-29 05:40:00 Source: 39 Health Net [liuxiangqin]

Men are most afraid of is easy to compare men broke up the self-esteem
Men are most afraid of is easy to compare men broke up the self-esteem

Men are most afraid of the woman to take him and others than

30% of male friends wife, girlfriend openly ridiculed as good as the other men. More than 40% of male friends feel their women heart to look down on their own. Only 29% of male users confidence in the palm of his woman is the best.

The
chatter of the man be a woman in front of their own feel their pride
hurt, so they took him and others than are most afraid of. In addition to the personality of the man's own problems, such as too inferior, his frustration large part by his woman. Such
as the woman say in the fight when hurt his self-esteem: "You're good
for nothing, you see people of so and so who's husband!" But you
underestimate the importance of the husband not your own choosing?
Would be responsible for their own choices.

Woman to avoid say hurt their own men, should also be from the bottom of my heart to worship their own men. A
woman, you should think about their side of the man once strongly
attracted you to becoming useless by comparison with others. Change of mind is that you?

Than a man's thing, you have not done?

Complacent boyfriend of three years wages did not rise

Boyfriend
is always very complacent, do not know how to go pursue academic,
technical, and professional than I am a lot stronger, but wages are no
taller than me.

I
know that in the end is why? His work almost three years, but wages
have been no longer than has been running in place, he does not own
introspection, I can not say that's too hard, worried that she says the
wrong thing will hit him self-confidence. However,
if he continue like this, we got married the house needed Where to? Has
not been and he married the things you want to buy a house, he is also
worried about doing too much pressure house slaves so nothing wrong
with renting. But, after all, the last we need is a home of their own. But why he did not intend to do?

The woman is used to pain, men need more care, rather than like a mother pipe with his life. His salary is not me. I do not know when the heart is what it feels like in the mouth, he asked me for money. Feel and the distance between him and farther!

If the man and woman together, he should have a strong sense of responsibility to make good woman, but he did what no to do. To make money, buy a house, saving money to get married. These, he simply did not think about.

Sometimes I suspect that he did not want to marry me? Such complacent men really do not know what he was good.

My man as well as others husband considerate

One
week will have to work four nights, the place to work far away from
home, I did not test the license plate, so the bus to and from work are
also transferred a car in the urban area, and he is on work evenings the last two weeks of his school holidays, so do not need to.

The
beginning, he often came to pick me up, he does not come I will be very
happy, but then I also tired, back and forth also missing a bell, so
they decided to own the car, even if the Just Sunday told him to pick me up, because on Sunday the car hard, and on Monday morning to attend classes. In
fact, these are little things, but every time he came to pick me feel
like a task, but not the obligation, it makes me feel to own very
cherish her husband, and secondly, even if he is really to pick not
feel psychological on. So
I am not going to let him come to work here to pick me up, occasionally
let him come to the city to pick me up, that I not have to wait another
shuttle, do not get off that section of the road and then go back,
because it is really cold, are minus degrees dozens.

But
I think each talking on the phone, he seems a little scared and I
really want him to pick me up like never want to take the initiative to
say, I think that even if his back is not a big deal when, do not want
to " embarrass "him. Slowly he will not be in the urban areas to pick me up. Then slowly I do not work on Sunday, and he never never been pick me.

Someone said to me, my husband is only worth 60 points because his car is not to pick me up, so the weather is very cold. I also explained their own car, too, in fact, the heart sour. Watching others have a husband to pick up, you will feel that they have been ignored. He's a good friend, as long as he is free, he must pick up his wife from work. I think his wife is walking less than a few minutes to shop? Him go. My
husband? I do not want to take my husband and others than if I and
others have many deficiencies than I, but I always do ...... I often
think about this, I will be very happy. Every
time he pick up I just give a lift., Go over there to help repair the
computer, or help people send goods past ... no longer to pick me pick
me. More never is really willing to take the initiative to pick me, I'm so sad. I feel so depressed, I think he did not care. I
went back to eat, the phone, he also knows that I go back, but after I
got home, the dishes, so it frozen stood did not help me hot, I think
the heart is cold.

I
also changed it, even if it is not happy, I will not show apparent in
front of him, I presume that anything ever thought, what does not, but
he know what I always care about what ?

He has not done enough? I asking too much?

He worked for seven years, the monthly salary of only 3500!

We
met six years into the marriage after 1 year of love, he met six years,
I do not know him very well, but occasionally had contact work, when he
gave me the feeling is just very honest, generous not
contrived and very very outgoing personality, the only bad impression
voices, the the office encounter problems, temper partial temper! his
childhood living in rural, family condition is very hard, he created a
life now feeling very
satisfied, in fact, the conditions can not be regarded as good, his
monthly salary of about 3.5K / M, my only about 2.5K / M, still do not
have a house.

Every
day after work, he always bubble to play games online, and in my
opinion is a very motivated person is, in fact, not married, I know
that he is so personal, but I think that marriage, he would have changed,
did not expect more change to the Gali He graduated so far has been
seven years of work experience before existing companies, his former
company work more than three years, has not been to the opportunity for
promotion, and later on the jump and now this. Four years later, he is still only a small charge of, according to his statement, the boss does not give him a chance. But
I feel that he is not to communicate with the boss and employees to
communicate Moreover, even if a lot of opportunities before us, and if
they can not take the initiative to fight for that futile! These ideas
often I will communicate with him, but he's as remains
the same! In fact, his professional ability, is the character is too
good and strong, and refused to communicate with the boss or
communication, I really do not know how to do it!
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